Single-Relationship

Hey my blog! I have something to share with you today.

The topic is about SINGLE-RELATIONSHIP.

For my opinion, Single is when don't have any partner of relationship with opposite gender either it female or male. 

The point here is not every single is lonely.

Last two weeks, my friend of mine asking me this question. 

"Enda lonely d geng? Semua orang bisi kaling magang. D aja bedau bisi kaling"

Me : Staring at her with smile. And I told her I'm not lonely being single as I'm not ready with any relationship because for me being in relationship is complicated too.

My friend : She just nodded her head and agreed with me. 

Every choice that we made have pros & cons. I'm not saying that 

being in relationship is complicated. Not every relationship is experience this. But for my experience, being in relationship is the most adventure experience in my lifetime. There are too many things that I have to learned before I jump into a serious relationship later. There are too many complicated things that I have to endure & settle. I have to mentally & emotionally ready. 

I'm used to be a single lady :)

It is not crime not to have any bf/gf now. Sooner or later, you'll find yours. 

For me, being single is the way for us to explore many things. Yourself, career, dream, family, friends, & God. 

I'm settle down with everything buried inside myself. Now, with a open arms I have to let go everything that I can't let go before. I have to move on. 

I was motivated myself over & over again even though sometimes the wall that I build was crashing down but I have to be strong. Everything must come to the end but at the same time every ending is nothing more than a new beginning.  

Dear single, don't worry to much about finding the right person right now, be the right one. Don't be too sad. We are not lonely. There are a lot of things in this world that we have to explore by our own. Start your exploration now. Most of all. you'll start to be in love with yourself abundantly. 

Dear relationship, it was a pleasure experience when start to feel fall in love with that person, being loved with that person. You'll start treasure your relationship when you start to do things together with him/her. Love sincerely. Trust. Communicate. Understand. With a God's will, everything is worth in the end. Good luck everyone! 

With Love,